A private membership community for the poly, kink, and sex-positive scene in New York City — events, classes, and parties, grounded in consent and care.
Social A facilitated noode wrestling experience exploring connection, trust, body awareness, & playful physical contact through conscious movement
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
Get ready for a night of fun and connection! Come and meet other spicy members of the BIPOC community.
The tools you need to turn a fantasy into reality!
Social A vetted movie night & mixer for Hit Me Up members.
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
An intro to the fine art of flogging. Basics and safety tips, learn how to do the spinning “Florentine Flogging”, plus open play and demo
A practical guide to thriving solo at play parties through confidence, community and communication.
Find the edges of your desire. Come sharpen your skills in this edgy and seductive workshop on Knife Play for the bold and adventurous!
Social A vetted kinky makeout event for Hit Me Up members, with a Halloween twist.
Explore how pressure, texture, impact, and intensity can turn sensitive spots into a playground for pleasure.
Social A vetted hangout for Hit Me Up members, with a special gaming + crafting twist
You've figured it out -- you're k*nky! Let's understand what you already like and discover even more things that you might enjoy.
Learn how to build a plan to make the dream of living together actually happen.
Come see the space and connect with your BIPOC community! Join us for a casual mixer at the HMU Loft
What even is a play party anyways? What should you expect? Will there be food? WHAT SHOULD YOU WEAR???? Let's de-mystify the process!
This workshop plunges into the thrilling world of psychological fear play, taking play beyond the physical and into the deliciously twisted
A facilitated discussion exploring partner-sharing dynamics through the lenses of consent, power, communication, and lived experience.
Private Our classic Play Party, where Halloween is resurrected for one last night! Hit Me Up's private members-only event.
A vetted kinky makeout event for BIPOC Hit Me Up members at the HMU Loft, with a spooky twist!
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