A private membership community for the poly, kink, and sex-positive scene in New York City — events, classes, and parties, grounded in consent and care.
HMU’s premier party has returned, gathering all our favorite deviants and oddities for a night of decadent furry fun.
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
Join HMU at our very own Loft for a classic kinky mixer of new friends and old!
Psychoeducation on anxiety in the body and our nervous system response, communication techniques, & emotion regulation
Whether you're a skilled rope artist, an experienced rope bunny, or brand new and just curious, we welcome you!
A vetted kinky makeout event for BIPOC Hit Me Up members at the HMU Loft!
Explore the history, psychology, negotiation, and etiquette of high protocol, & learn how to build intentional, consensual protocol dynamics
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
Does the thought of getting frisky in public excite you? Learn covert and overt ways to play on your own or with others when you're out!
Join us for a fun, sexy pilates class!
Where restraint ends and objectification begins.
A vetted movie night & mixer for Hit Me Up members.
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
An opportunity to dust off your bookshelves, clear out anything you're finished with, and swap with friends for some new and exciting reads!
Join us for a fun, sexy pilates class!
Grab your harness & get ready to learn the ins & outs of strap-on sex! You’ll leave prepared & confident to harness the power of your strap
Learn how to sit, smother, and truly be "on top" with Master Apex.
A vetted kinky makeout event for Hit Me Up members.
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
A vetted hangout for Hit Me Up members, with a special gaming + crafting twist
Join us at the HMU loft for a mixer for the monogamous and monogamish!
Whether you're a skilled rope artist, an experienced rope bunny, or brand new and just curious, we welcome you!
Join us for a fun, sexy pilates class!
Mix and mingle with other HMU private members before heading over to HMU Play!
Hit Me Up's private members-only event.
There are so many options for b*ndage besides rope! Learn unconventional methods of b*ndage that are fast, easy, and fun!
Whether you're a seasoned fetishist, a budding enthusiast, or a curious kinkster, join Knotasha for a latex intensive followed by a mixer!
Join us for a fun, sexy pilates class!