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Curio: Pet Play

Sat, Aug 8 · 10:00 PM – 4:00 AM
Party Private

HMU’s premier party has returned, gathering all our favorite deviants and oddities for a night of decadent furry fun.

Requires Private membership — Apply here

Open Loft Days: Coworking at HMU

Mon, Aug 10 · 12:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Class Public

Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.

HMU: Kinky Mixer

Tue, Aug 11 · 7:00 PM – 11:00 PM
Hangout Public

Join HMU at our very own Loft for a classic kinky mixer of new friends and old!

HMU Tie Me Down: Rope Jam

Wed, Aug 12 · 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Party Public

Whether you're a skilled rope artist, an experienced rope bunny, or brand new and just curious, we welcome you!

HMU BIPOC Tease

Fri, Aug 14 · 8:00 PM – 1:30 AM
Party Public

A vetted kinky makeout event for BIPOC Hit Me Up members at the HMU Loft!

Open Loft Days: Coworking at HMU

Mon, Aug 17 · 12:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Class Public

Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.

HMU Academy: Public Play for Everyone

Mon, Aug 17 · 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM
Class Public

Does the thought of getting frisky in public excite you? Learn covert and overt ways to play on your own or with others when you're out!

Social

Hit Me Up: Movie Night!

Thu, Aug 20 · 7:30 PM – 10:30 PM
Hangout Social

A vetted movie night & mixer for Hit Me Up members.

Requires Social membership — Apply here

Open Loft Days: Coworking at HMU

Mon, Aug 24 · 12:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Class Public

Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.

HMU Book Swap

Mon, Aug 24 · 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Hangout Public

An opportunity to dust off your bookshelves, clear out anything you're finished with, and swap with friends for some new and exciting reads!

HMU Academy: Ins and Outs of Strapping On

Tue, Aug 25 · 7:00 PM – 9:15 PM
Class Public

Grab your harness & get ready to learn the ins & outs of strap-on sex! You’ll leave prepared & confident to harness the power of your strap

Social

Hit Me Up: Tease

Fri, Aug 28 · 8:00 PM – 1:30 AM
Party Social

A vetted kinky makeout event for Hit Me Up members.

Requires Social membership — Apply here

Open Loft Days: Coworking at HMU

Mon, Aug 31 · 12:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Class Public

Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.

Social

HMU: Game & Craft Night

Mon, Aug 31 · 7:00 PM – 10:30 PM
Hangout Social

A vetted hangout for Hit Me Up members, with a special gaming + crafting twist

Requires Social membership — Apply here

HMU Tie Me Down: Rope Jam

Thu, Sep 3 · 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Party Public

Whether you're a skilled rope artist, an experienced rope bunny, or brand new and just curious, we welcome you!

Private

Pre-Party Mixer: HMU Play Back to School

Fri, Sep 11 · 7:00 PM – 9:30 PM
Hangout Private

Mix and mingle with other HMU private members before heading over to HMU Play!

Requires Private membership — Apply here
Private

Hit Me Up: Play - Back to School

Fri, Sep 11 · 10:00 PM – 4:00 AM
Party Private

Hit Me Up's private members-only event.

Requires Private membership — Apply here

HMU Academy: Bondage Without Rope

Mon, Sep 14 · 7:00 PM – 9:30 PM
Class Public

There are so many options for b*ndage besides rope! Learn unconventional methods of b*ndage that are fast, easy, and fun!

HMU Academy: Latex Intensive + Mixer

Thu, Sep 17 · 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Class Public

Whether you're a seasoned fetishist, a budding enthusiast, or a curious kinkster, join Knotasha for a latex intensive followed by a mixer!